Like most of you, I watched George Floyd fight for his last breath on national TV, by someone whose job it was to protect people. It sickened me.⁣
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I’ve struggled to find the words to express how I was feeling. In all honesty, I was afraid to speak about it in fear that I would say the wrong thing or my thoughts would be misinterpreted.⁣
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But staying silent can be misinterpreted too.⁣
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Yesterday morning I watched an IGTV video by @cut and I knew I couldn’t stay silent any longer.⁣
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I am a white woman. I will NEVER know what it’s like to be a person of color. I will never be pulled over because of the color of my skin. I have never been afraid of the police. And knowing that so many, at a young age are taught to act a certain way around a police officer, in fear that they may be arrested or worse, killed, for absolutely no reason at all, breaks my heart.⁣
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But this isn’t about me or my feelings.⁣
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This is about the senseless killings that continue happening. It’s about the injustice that people of color face. It’s about so many families that have lost loved ones. It’s about all of the beautiful black children and their parents and grandparents and extended family, that are afraid of what could happen to them because of the color of their skin.⁣
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Imagine leaving your home every day and wondering if you’ll ever return. No one should ever have to feel that way.⁣
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It’s time we stopped the silence and did something about it. It’s time we focus on change and how we can do better. I’m sharing ways we can make a change on the blog today and I’ve included the link in my bio. ⁣
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Best part about having a teenage daughter? We can enjoy Lifetime Original Movies together! [ad] I'm so excited for this weekend's movie marathon! @LifetimeTV has always been one of my favorites and just like me, this year they are celebrating 30 incredible years (wink, wink)! ⁣
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Lucia and I are ready for a weekend of movies, popcorn and LOTS of commentary. Somehow, even if it's a drama or a thriller, we find ourselves laughing. She definitely shares my crazy sense of humor. ⁣
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Today we are planning on watching Death of a Cheerleader at 11am EST and Flowers in the Attic at 4pm EST and tomorrow, Beaches at 12pm EST. ⁣
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The marathon begins today at 11am EST and ends Sunday night.. so grab your popcorn and tune in with us. Don't forget to check out our stories where we'll be sharing what it's like to watch a movie with us (almost as entertaining as the movies themselves). #LifetimeLoyals  #LifetimeTV #LOM30 ⁣
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I don’t know who needs to hear this right now, but this is only temporary. ⁣
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I’ve said it to myself a million times since I was diagnosed with anxiety disorder. And now, during this pandemic, it’s something we all have to focus on. ⁣
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We won’t always be locked in our homes. We won’t always have to wear a mask in public. Our kids won’t always be schooled online. We won’t always be out of work. Because just like anxiety, this pandemic is only temporary. ⁣
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Enjoy your family. Cherish every moment you are being “forced” to spend with them. Your kids are growing up and they won’t always be little. Having them at home with you is just as temporary. ⁣
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Today on the blog, our friend Alison @theanxietyhealer is sharing her personal struggle and how she’s coping with anxiety during a pandemic. She’s also included her favorite affirmations for you. Link is in my bio (or swipe up in stories). ⁣
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Today is #nationalbrisketday so obviously I have to share my go-to slow cooker BBQ brisket recipe. It’s probably one of the easiest recipes you’ll ever make. It tastes like you spent hours in the kitchen cooking it, though it takes just minutes to prep. Best part is, you can make this recipe with any cut of beef! Serve on a plate with your favorite sides or on a roll for a delicious sandwich. Your family will love it!⁣
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Head to the blog (link in bio or swipe up in stories) for the easy to follow recipe. ⁣
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I’ve gotten so much positive feedback on the copycat Starbucks Pink Drink recipe I put up on the blog last month and I just wanted to thank you guys so much! Since most of us aren’t going out, it’s fun to try to make our favorites at home. What copycat recipe do you want me to share next?
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𝗪𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐟𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐡 𝐨𝐫 𝐝𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐭? ⁣
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And if you missed the Pink Drink recipe, just click on the link in our bio or swipe up in stories. ⁣😊⁣
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In case you missed it... yesterday I shared a free printable neighborhood scavenger hunt (link in bio). ⁣I didn’t mention that in addition to this scavenger hunt page, you’ll also receive 2 additional exclusive printable scavenger hunts! 🙌🏻⁣
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Although our city is slowly opening up, we will be staying in and enjoying family time today. ⁣
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We will also be doing a fun scavenger hunt around the neighborhood (I shared the free printable on the blog today so go and grab it - link in bio). ⁣
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Back in January, we visited @legolandflorida for the first time. One of the highlights of that trip, was discovering Granny's Apple Fries. We've been pretty obsessed with them since the first bite and wanted to try to recreate them at home.⁣
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I researched, I googled, I tried two different recipes that I found online that claimed to be Legoland Granny apple fries copycat recipes. And they were both huge failures. ⁣
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Cyberbullying…. it’s real, it’s everywhere, but most of all, it’s annoying.  People seem to think that just because they are sitting behind a computer or a cell phone, that they can say whatever they want, regardless of the feelings it may hurt and the damage it might do.  I’m over it… especially in the small shop community that I love.

Growing up, I was taught the same thing, over and over again… If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.  Maybe I’m naive, but I figured that was something that was taught in every household.  It seems nowadays people thrive on attention, even if it’s negative, maybe even more so when it’s negative.  Y’all, our ancestors are turning over in their graves right now.  This is not how they raised us. Stop being a jerk!

I understand that social media is public.  By putting pictures of ourselves and our kids in a public place, we are opening ourselves up to criticism (welcomed or not).  I understand that we made the decision to put these pictures out there for the world to see.  What I don’t understand is how people think that it’s ok for them to accuse someone of being an unfit mother or dressing their child “inappropriately”…. Who are you to decide what is appropriate and what isn’t, when it’s not your own child? You are judging them based on one picture.  How ridiculous is that?!

Driving home this morning, I heard on the radio that Snooki (Nicole Polizzi) was being criticized on social media for putting makeup on her 2 year old for her dance recital.  She wound up turning off comments because she just didn’t want to hear from the trolls who were telling her how to be a good Mom.  Newsflash people… my kids have been dancing for years and in our studio, makeup is required for recitals.  Do you think she was just putting mascara on her two year old to take her out to the park?! And even if she was, is that any of your business?! Just because she’s a celeb and she shares her life with us, doesn’t give you the right to be rude. If she was standing in front of you would you say those things?! Probably not…. you’d just be asking her for an autograph and a selfie. Instead of ridiculing her, why not commend her on the life she has built for her kids… her success….

And while celebs get hit with it the hardest, it’s not something that any of us can escape.  I’ve watched small shops and brand reps get attacked for no good reason.  Let me be completely real here…. if you stumble upon a picture that you don’t like because the outfit isn’t something you’d put on your child, or a mama is breastfeeding her baby or you are just having a bad day…. keep your negative thoughts to yourself.  When we post pictures of ourselves or our children, we aren’t doing it to get our feelings hurt.  We deal with enough on a daily basis.  Don’t ruin someone’s day. If you HAVE TO say something, say it out loud, to yourself and then move on to the next picture on your feed.  It’s that simple.  Spreading hate and negativity will never get you any respect.  All it will do is get you blocked and reported.

Let’s get back to basics kids… if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.  Out loud… on social media… anywhere.  Maybe if we practiced more positivity in our daily routine, we would all live happier lives.  Set a good example for your children.  They are watching, they are listening and they will act the same way, whether it’s right or wrong.  I choose to teach my girls that all people are beautiful, no matter their size, their color, their religion or their beliefs.  They will grow up to respect others feelings and give them a hug as opposed to a kick in the back.  They will help them up if they fall, instead of laughing at them.  Focus on your kids and being the best parent you can be before you criticize someone else for what you think they are doing right or wrong.  It’s that simple.

What do you think about cyberbullying? Have you been a victim? Comment below and let me know your thoughts!  Have a topic you want me to talk about? Email us! Make sure to check out the shops featured in this post and follow our daily small shop fashion on Instagram @thesmallfashionista and on our new Facebook page.

Featured image: Hat: Bubbas Truckers, Tee: Static Grey

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  • Patty
    May 15, 2017

    I couldn’t agree more! Very well said. And that’s ridiculous about the make up for a dance recital … these people commenting obviously have never put their children in dance or gymnastics because you have to put make up on them so their faces don’t disappear in the lights. Either way like you said and I was taught growing up as well if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it at all

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