It’s the last official weekend of Summer and I’m hardcore celebrating. And by hardcore celebrating, I mean lighting my @raedunn fall scented candles, binge watching Netflix and going to bed before 10pm. 🙌🏻 Remember when our nights didn’t even start until 10pm? I would dance all night, get back home with just enough time to shower and change before heading out to work. AND I could work a full 8 hours without ever feeling the fact that I hadn’t slept in more than 24 hours... Now I’m unable to function if someone wakes me up 15 minutes early. Getting old is awesome. .
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It’s the last official weekend...

I read something the other day on Facebook that said that the song that was number 1 on your 14th birthday, defines your life. I googled it, excited to find a message, a sign (I’m a sucker for that sort of thing). Instead, I found it was “Cream” by Prince. 😐 Cream? What does that mean? Ice cream? Coffee creamer? 
So I looked it up... and read the lyrics. "Cream" was meant to mean “cream of the crop”. There are lyrics like “everything you do is success” and my favorite part... “Do your dance
Why should you wait any longer?
Take a chance
It could only make you stronger”  Message received, Prince. Message received. 
What song was number one on your 14th birthday?
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This girl lost another tooth last week. I’ve been waiting for this toothless smile since she knocked her other one out last year. Unfortunately, it’s not going to last long because her adult tooth is already growing in 😭. (Zoom in to see) Yesterday I noticed both of her front-bottom teeth are peeking out behind her baby teeth too. Does anyone know how to slow down time. A button? A phone call? Maybe a time machine? My baby isn’t a baby anymore. Cue the tears. Have you celebrated any milestones with your kids recently?
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This girl lost another tooth...

I don’t get bouquets of flowers for no reason…. But I do appreciate the flowers that grow by our mailbox, like this one. And it made me realize something this morning.  I’m over it. 
I’m over comparing my life to other people’s lives on social media.
My house might not be as fancy. 
My wardrobe is not as expensive. 
I don't apply makeup as well or even at all most days.
I don’t have beautiful, long flowing hair.
I don’t drive a car that’s worth bragging about. 
We don’t go on lavish trips around the world. 
I don’t carry loads of money in designer handbags. 
Does that make me less of a person? 
Does that make me less of an influencer? 
No. It makes me a regular 40-something Mom who has chosen to open up and share our lives on social media.  It makes me someone who has built this hobby of photography and writing into a business that has solely supported my family for a year and a half. 
I’m proud of that. 
I’m proud that I’m not a follower.
I’m proud that I have worked hard for what I’ve achieved.
I’m proud of influencers like me who are unapologetically themselves.  What are you proud of? .
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F O U R T E E N. 
What do you give your oldest daughter when she turns 14? Well, when you’re me, you write her a poem and post it on the blog for the world to see. Head over to read it and let me know what you think. Then, help me wish Lucia the best 14th birthday ever 👇🏻👇🏻
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It was just after Iyla's third birthday. She seemed to be on track, at least according to the pediatrician's checklist. She could follow instructions, name most familiar things, knew her first name, spoke in sentences and could carry a conversation, though she was hard to understand most of the time. We enrolled her in preschool that year and she was a little social butterfly. But as that school year went on, her teachers started to notice that she was struggling to get her words out. Most people that know Iyla today, have no idea that she was in speech therapy classes for two years. They have no idea that I fought it for almost 6 months and that I felt a tremendous guilt about it, because I thought it was my fault that she was stuttering as badly as she was. Today on the blog, I’m sharing the mistakes I made, in hopes that if you are ever in this situation, you take advantage of early intervention. .
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It was just after Iyla's...

There are two types of kids. 1) The kid who wants to eat the same thing every single day of the week, sometimes more than one time per day and 2) The kid who loves something one day and then hates it the next. #ad Which type of kid do you have? Or, are your kids like mine and bounce back and forth between the two? Either way, there is a way to make lunches more fun for kids. I'll let you in on a little secret... creating fun lunches is more fun for us too! This week, we created our first character, Inspector Caper Eyes. Head to the blog for more details! Plus, learn why we choose @JuicyJuiceUSA new better-for-you options, which are packed with functional benefits with juicy flavor that parents can feel great about serving to their kids.
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There are two types of...

Remember I told you guys about our day dates now that the girls are #backtoschool? Well, we’ve really been enjoying them. #sponsored We walk, talk and laugh (a lot). Have you seen our IGTV yet? It’s a cheesy, beautiful video of what our relationship is like. I love that we’re able to connect and that we can make the time in our day to focus on our relationship and our health. Since we have three daughters, it’s even more important to go the extra mile when it comes to taking care of ourselves. These awesome @amazfit watches help us with that. I have the Amazfit Verge and Super Dad has the Amazfit Bip. They are lightweight, have app notifications and track your daily activity, your heart rate and so much more. The Amazfit Bip comes with a 30-day battery life and the Verge comes with Alexa built-in and you can make and receive phone calls through the watch. We can track our activity, sleep and heart rate and hold each other accountable for better decisions, when it comes to fitness and health. Visit rcl.ink/UyB to check them out and make sure to take advantage of the sale they’re currently having. No discount code necessary! What are you doing to get back to you? .
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Remember I told you guys...

Take me back to the time when all I had to do was color in the lines, learn my abc’s and take a long nap everyday. Why didn’t we appreciate what we had back then? .
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#AD Our girls love nature, so this weekend, we headed to a local nature preserve for a little animal watching, walking and family time. We always pack the essentials when we're heading out in this Florida heat, including snacks, sunblock and @smartwater, because we know how important it is to stay hydrated. We love smartwater® because it's purified water made using vapor distillation, similar to the way water is purified in nature. It's available in 700mL and 1L bottles. Now through 9/15, you can save $2.75 off at Sam's Club, so stock up! (limit 10 per member) https://lnk2.io/abYC5gD #kidsfitness #fitnessfun #daddyslittlegirl #natureseekers #naturephotos #exercisemotivation #familyfitness #fitnessforlife #qualitytime #bestdad #bestdayever #bestfriendgoals #fatherdaughter #dadofgirls #smartwater #hydrate #hydration #drinkwater #marshalls #marshallsfinds

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It Doesn’t Matter How Cute Your Kid Is

If You Love It, Share It!
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I see SO many people complaining about not being chosen for a team and saying that their child is just as cute as the ones chosen.  NEWS FLASH people… brand repping has NOTHING to do with how cute your child is… and if I’m being completely honest here, if I, as a shop owner, was to choose based on how cute the kid was, I’d have to choose everyone because to me, all kids are beautiful! The truth is, a cute face will not sell my items… great photography will. So as long as you are focusing on the right things, you will get the attention of the shops you want to work with the most.

So if this isn’t a cute kid contest, then what can you do better?  You already know that your photography matters.  If the pictures are blurry or dark, they aren’t good enough.  If you’re using filters that alter the color of the items, that’s a no-no as well.  Shops are looking for people who are going to promote their item and provide pictures that will show off their merchandise in it’s best light. They want pictures that will show potential customers what the item looks like on a person and these potential customers rely on you to provide that visual that will be as close to the real thing as possible. Don’t let how cute your child looks in a shot, cloud your judgement, especially if the item is not in focus. You can save those pictures for yourself, but for the shops, they need great product photography that highlights their item.

When I’m taking pictures of Falynn, I’m not telling her to smile. I’m not telling her to pose.  Most of my direction sounds more like “I can’t see what your shirt says”… “Show me your glasses”… “Turn sideways so I can see the zipper on your pants”…. Basically, I’m constantly thinking about the item(s) we are photographing.  I let her be herself (as silly as she may be), while I take close ups, full body and candid shots.  I make sure that with every shoot, I have at least 2 close ups or detail shots, sometimes I’ll even take a couple of close ups of the label, if it’s sewn on the outside of the clothing because details are what make small shop items so unique and special!  I never provide pictures to a shop that has their item not fully visible. If it’s a tee shirt or a dress with a saying, the saying is always completely shown, or it’s not being sent to the shop.  They need pictures that clearly show their item, not pictures that have people guessing what that shirt or dress says. When you go to a website to shop, what do you see?  You see photos of the item that clearly show the item (the fabric, the saying, the style)… that’s exactly what you should be providing.  Great product photography with your perfect human wearing it.

Try to put yourself in a potential customers shoes.  What would you need to see in order to purchase this particular product?  Can you see the fabric?  Is the lighting complimentary to the item or is it too bright/dark?  Is the necklace right side up or did it accidentally get flipped?  Do you have too many accessories on that may take away from being able to focus on the main pieces?  Can you see the finishings, the details, the quality?  Is the background super distracting?  Pay attention!  If you can have a helper come along to keep an eye on all of the details, that helps tremendously! I usually have my 11 year old or my husband with me on shoots to make sure everything stays in place. And if you don’t have that option, just remember to keep your eye on the prize… the item or items you are photographing.  Brand repping is not about your child, it’s about the items you are photographing.  If you can remember that and focus on that during your photoshoots, you will find that you will be able to provide much better shots for the shops you are working with.  That’s what makes great brand reps, great brand reps!

What do you think about this topic? Comment below and let me know your thoughts!  Have a topic you want me to talk about? Email us! Make sure to check out the shops featured in this post and follow our daily small shop fashion on Instagram @thesmallfashionista and on our new Facebook page.

Featured image: Headband: Marsol Handmade, Dress: Bug + Wink, Cuff: Cuff Baby

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