Why You Won’t Hear About Our Last Vacation

two sisters in the pool during our last vacation
Author: Heather
Category: Travel
Published Date: 06/30/2021
Comments: 44

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As a full-time content creator and photographer, it’s my job to capture memories and write about them. As fun as that sounds, it also means that when we go on vacation, I am working at least 95% of the time.

I don’t get to be in the moment, enjoy my family, relax or have fun. I’m too busy worrying about missing the perfect photo or capturing the moment to share with a bunch of strangers on the internet.

I love my job, I really do. And I appreciate every single one of you that are reading this. But just like the people who have their phones in the air during concerts, I realized that I’m missing out on the experience of being in the moment.

When I booked our last vacation, I made a commitment to myself and my family that I would be more present and enjoy the time with them.

I can’t say it was easy. The content creator in me reached for my camera and phone pretty often. But the Mom in me remembered to put the camera away and capture those memories with my eyes. While I can’t show you those memories, they will forever live inside of my heart. They may be the best memories I’ve ever captured.

So, you won’t hear about the hotel we stayed at during our last vacation. You won’t know which hotel it was or what we liked and disliked about it.

You won’t hear about the restaurants we ate at or what we thought about the food.

You won’t hear about the activities that we took part in, the shops we visited, or what we purchased as a souvenir.

You won’t hear about the accommodations during our last vacation or how comfy the beds were or weren’t.

You won’t see images of the hotel or my kids having a blast at the pool. Though I did take photos, they were photos for us to remember, not so much for me to share (I will probably share a few on Instagram if I find that they bring me joy – but I don’t feel obligated to).

While I did have to get some work done our last vacation, since I have deadlines, I spent most of the 4 days and 3 nights with my family in a resort, eating good food, watching my kids have fun, and relaxing (something I haven’t done in so long, I almost forgot what it felt like).

I didn’t plan every single second, as I typically have to do, to make sure we’ve done everything I need to take pictures of. Reservations were the only thing that was set in stone our last vacation.

I didn’t stress out about what I had to do when we got home or the pile of work that may or may not be waiting for me. I barely even looked at my planner.

I had fun. I relaxed. I took in the giggles and the pure happiness in my daughters’ eyes. I allowed myself to stop worrying about content and start enjoying family.

And I’d do it again in a heartbeat. Hopefully next time, in a bathing suit (but that’s a topic for another time).

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For the first time in a long time, I allowed myself to enjoy a vacation and to be present. So you won't be hearing about our last vacation.
For the first time in a long time, I allowed myself to enjoy a vacation and to be present. So you won't be hearing about our last vacation.

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  • Being present can be at times the most challenging task of them all. Either to simply enjoy life, love, and laugh or to give space to other feelings that may seem not so pleasant live grief or anger, being present is crucial to evolve as human beings. It is not easy but you did great. Thanks for the reminder.

  • It sounds very healthy! I believe life is all about balance, so, work hard, but, play hard too. Great post about being present and enjoying the moment.

  • Nice article, it’s better sometimes to just get the most out of the moment, instead of being busy sharing it, love it.

  • It is so nice to just be in the moment with your loved ones. Documented and publicizing everything is overrated!

  • I don’t blame you for this. I’m the worst when it comes to putting work trips aside when traveling with the family.

  • I love how relatable your post is. Being content creators, it’s more natural for us to reach for our phones and cameras, snap away, then share the photos on social media. I do agree with you also that we should balance it out by creating memories with our kids and spending time with them. It can be challenging but we can do it.

  • This is a challenge for me to put my phone away for the whole weekend when my family and I go up to my parent’s lake house. It’s so hard for me! And I don’t even care about social media. It’s the photo documenting that I need to do. I’ll take a few but will try very hard to just capture most of it in my mind and stay present.